There's a new Klopcic in the family!

This is going to be a brief blog, so I apologize to everyone in advance that was waiting for a longer one about all the wedding and honeymoon details. Suffice to say we had a fabulous wedding even though it rained! And Scott and I had an even more fabulous honeymoon! Here are a few photos for everyone to enjoy! Much love to everyone! More will come later I promise!

Almost to the end!

21 days to go and counting! The time certainly has flown by as I'm staring graduation and Wedding day in the eye!

Exactly 1 week from today I will be a graduate (again) with my Master's Degree in Marriage and Family Therapy. Even though I have a long haul of 3,000 hours to accrue before I can apply for licensure, I am glad that this part of the journey is finally coming to a close!! I've spent two years of hard work in the MFT program at Chico State, and as everyone close to me knows, it's been a long and challenging personal and professional journey. I am excited that I will finally be an alumni for the last time! That is until I decide to go for my PhD!! I'm sure Scott will love that! Hahah!

Exactly 3 weeks from today Scott and I will be tying the knot! I can't believe how quickly the time has flown! It feels like just yesterday that we were engaged and now we're on the short side of Wedding Day! I'm winding up all the last minute details as well, so I'm hoping (and praying) that everything comes together without a hitch, and that the groom shows up on time ;) I cannot wait to see everyone that is coming to the wedding and I will miss all of those who aren't able to come, but who I was looking forward to meeting (Tom and Chris and Paulette and Tim!! You will be missed!) I look forward to meeting all of you sometime soon!

Wish me luck during the next 3 weeks!!

I also want to send a shout out to my brother and law Will who is graduating this weeked and is also getting ordained! Congratulations to the Douglas Family! Love you guys!

The Aftermath

Well we've received many requests for pictures of our backyard efforts. Unfortunately we didn't take before pictures so you can't see how bad the yard really was. Here are the final product pictures though!

The void where the demon bush used to reside.

The new regrown yard and the fence that will keep Apollo from any future landscaping...

Reclaiming our Backyard

It has been awhile since the last time I made a post on our blog so here goes. Yesterday after a few weeks of procrastination and a few months of ignoring the state of the backyard Jenn and I went about reclaiming our yard from the dog. As much as we love Apollo, we did not really love the "landscaping" changes he has made to our backyard. It should be said that he is not by any means a destructive dog. The majority of the damage in the backyard was to the grass and that was likely caused by a combination of his normal running and playing along with the softer ground due to the rain. There was also the issue of getting rid of a rather large, rather ugly and mostly dead plant that had become an eyesore.

Yesterday started off with a trip to OSH where we really took advantage of their "we pay the sales tax" promotion. Armed with turf builder, seed, fertilizer and a bevvy of tools we prepared to tackle this long overdue project. While we were there we also found some fancy new outdoor lights to replace the ugly brass lights at the garage and front door. After a 5 minute search for the breaker box we got the new lights installed pretty easily and we love the new look.

Finally it was time to face the backyard. First up was the removal of the demon plant. We had previously trimmed this plant way back and Apollo had done his part by making the plant his personal bathroom. Even though it was mostly dead it was still quite large and as we found out the roots were quite attached to underlayment that the previous Owner had installed everywhere. We have had other encounters with this underlayment. Most notably when Apollo realized there was something underneath the gravel and took it upon himself to rip it out for us. This time however the underlayment proved to be quite the foe. It was preventing us from getting a shovel underneath the plant and into the roots. So first we had to find the underlayment and start making cuts into it. This was difficult enough as it was covered in dirt and rocks. Once we got part of it up we were able to begin getting the shovel under the plant. Slowly and methodically we worked our way around the plant and finally we were able to uproot it. I'm not sure how long it took, seems like at least an hour. It was a good workout at least. It looks so much better now that the plant is gone too. We still have to deal with the demon plant's brother on the other side of the yard, but we'll save that for another weekend.

Next up was the yard itself. First up we put up a temporary wood fence to keep Apollo out. It has yet to be seen how he will adjust to his play area being reduced to about 1/5 of the size he is used to. I'm sure he'll get used to it quick enough. Once the dog was blocked out we went about raking the damaged area which was about 3/4 of the yard, spreading seed, fertilizer and turf builder. We are hopeful that we'll get some new growth soon and we can reclaim the yard before this summer! All of this in preparation for next years landscaping project which will include expanding our patio area so we can get a table and an umbrella for some outdoor entertaining.

So despite the sore muscles today, yesterday proved to be quite productive.

My Minor Midafternoon Misadventure

I know I promised everyone a new blog theme for the next few weeks, but alas, I've hit a set-back. Not the normal type of set-back either. You see I've actually been working on some of my big projects and have been nailing down those last minute wedding details that always seem to creep up on you. So in the midst of all this busy-ness, I decided to have one calm afternoon. I had received The Duchess on Netflix, it was pretty good too!, and my good friend MaryAlice was going to come over and watch it with me and we were going to make spaghetti and meatballs, an all American classic, for the boys (i.e. her husband, and Scott) for dinner.

The afternoon started out calm and collected, we got the sauce on the stove and the meatballs in the oven. However, this pivotal moment would change the course of the next few hours.

The meatballs, while delicious and juicy, were not put on a rimmed cookie sheet before they were placed in the oven. My folly. The oil and juices from the meat oozed onto the bottom of the oven, creating some smoke in the kitchen and living room. Luckily, we were able to rescue the meatballs and put them in the sauce before the situation, at least at that point, got too far out of hand.

By this time, MaryAlice and I are contently relaxing in the living room, watching our film. The sauce is simmering, and with what I perceived as a stroke of genuis at the time, decided to turn the oven onto the cleaning cycle since the bottom was dirty from meatball juice. ***Preface*** I have never owned or lived in a place that has a self cleaning oven. If I have, I have never used it, and I wasn't really familiar with how the whole process worked. Armed with my less that brilliant knowledge, I kicked the oven onto the clean cycle and locked it up tight and it was back to the movie and relaxing on the couch. Not 30 minutes later, a funny smell and smoke alarms beeping prompted MaryAlice and I to investigate the situation in the kitchen. Low and behold, to what do our eyes we see, but FLAMES! Big, gigantic flames, gleefully dancing behind the glass in the oven. I think I must've gasped in dis-belief and sent up several quick and fervent prayers to God, but quickly I sprang into action. "We have a fire extinguisher, I'll grab that!" I said, while running sightly manic towards the laundry room, the residence of the extinguisher. I pulled the pin with gusto and was prepared to throw open the door and spray the fire to death! Did I forget to mention that black smoke was beginning to billow out of my oven at this time? Yeah, SCARY!

As I found out, the oven would not open, and I couldn't pull/press the handle on the fire extinguisher. At this point at a loss, and receiving silent support from MaryAlice, who was prepared to run in the event of an emergency, I decided to call 911. This meant fire trucks, and lots of noise and commotion on our quite, silent street. I grabbed Apollo and the phone, and MaryAlice grabbed her purse, flute and dinner. Armed with the essentials we walked out to the front porch to await the arrival of the firemen. By this time it was rounding 5 o'clock and I had to make the phone call to Scott telling him that he shouldn't be alarmed to see a fire truck in the driveway because I only set the oven on fire and everything else was ok. To this statement Scott simply replied "Mmm.....ok."

Needless to say, my midafternoon misadventure wound up with a burnt oven, that still needs to be cleaned, but sustained no other damage, thank goodness!, and a friendly visit from the local firemen, and an adrenaline rush and crazy adventure that I'm not likely to forget soon. On the plus side, MaryAlice saved the dinner and we cooked up some spaghetti and enjoyed our dinner like we would on any other "normal" evening. What I learned from this event, be very very very careful when using the cleaning cycle on your oven, and always use a rimmed cookie sheet when cooking meat!

Our house and kitchen are still standing as well.

A new theme....

Because I have so much time on my hands as well as an increasing desire to postpone those things which I will still have to do...i.e. my master's AR, I've decided to start a new blog "theme."

I know that many of you read our blog from other parts in the United States and aren't as familiar with the area that Scott and I live in. More specifically, Chico. I thought that our blog would be the perfect vehicle to show everyone what our lives are like, at least through pictures and stuff, plus it's also a great way for everyone to get to know us a little bit better.

I thought I'd start by traveling around Chico and taking photos of our favorite haunts and some of our favorite places to be. I often find that Chico is full of remarkable little spots of beauty and fun that give it such a wonderful charm.

Hopefully I'll be able to add in interesting little antecdotes along the way as well.

A Toast to Us on Valentine's Day

I had originally posted this on Facebook, which I totally recommend for family a friends, since it's a great way to keep in touch and stay updated with each other's lives, but I also thought this would be a great posting for a day devoted to love and couple-dom. It's also Apollo's First Birthday so I'll post some then and now photos for everyone to enjoy as well!

Here's to Us!

A little fun history and trivia about the two of us.

♥ What are your middle names? Michael and Christina

♥ How long have you been together? Almost 2 and a half years.

♥ How long did you know each other before you started dating? I would say about a month or two months before we were official. We kind of eased into it, and then we set with each other by March.

♥ Who asked who out? Well we both kind of asked each other out to the bars when we first met, but he asked me out on our first official date.

♥ How old are each of you?He is 28 and I am 24.

♥ Whose siblings do/ did you see the most?Probably his. Sandi has visited us more, but I think that's because she is more available that my siblings, since my sisters all have families and live in areas that are farther away so traveling is more difficult for them. Plus, we have a blast when Sandi visits.

♥ Do you have any children together?Only Apollo. He's a four legged freakazoid that always keeps us on our toes. But we love him!

♥ What about pets?Apoolo again fits this category. He can be gross, but definitely NOT as gross as Calvin. Sorry Lala.

♥ Which situation is the hardest on you as a couple?Hmm....I think grad school and wedding planning have been pretty tough on us, but we've learned new ways of coping that have really allowed us to succeed as a couple.

♥ Did you go to the same school?Nope! Scott went to Cal Poly SLO and I am going to Chico State. Only one more semester woot!

♥ Are you from the same home town?Nooooo...not by a long shot. He grew up in several places before settling in Paradise, CA, and I grew up in Alaska and Southern Cali.

♥ Who is the smartest?Hmm....how can I answer this and not get in trouble? ;) I think we're both exceptionally smart. I think it's one of the reasons why we get along so well. I think I am more circular and abstract at times, and I think he is more linear, mathematical and rational.

♥ Who is the most sensitive?I think both of us can be. I would probably say him, but he would probably say me! :)

♥ Where do you eat out most as a couple? We love sushi! That's probably our favorite food to eat out together. If it's not sushi than its probably mexican or seafood.

♥ Where is the furthest you two have traveled together as a couple?Chico to Yosemite to Santa Barbara. But we're going to be traveling to the Caribbean for our honeymoon and that will take the cake as longest trip!

♥ Who has the craziest exes? Probably me. I have more, at least that he would count. But he has the "crazy" girl in Sacramento. hehehe. :)

♥ Who has the worst temper?Neither one of us really has a temper, but I would probably say me. I get more vocal and arrogant.

♥ Who does the cooking?Probably I do more, but he makes some AWESOME tri-tip and quesadillas that are TO DIE FOR!

♥ Who is more social? I would totally say me, all the way, even though I can be pretty shy at times too.

♥ Who is the neat-freak? Him, but not by a large margin. I'm particular about certain areas, and he's more particular in general.

♥ Who is the more stubborn? Me. All the way.

♥ Who hogs the bed? Me. I'm a sprawler, and a blanket hog apparently :P

♥ Who wakes up earlier?He does more frequently, but I can get moving faster sometimes.

♥ Where was your first date? Johnny's in Chico.

♥ Who has the bigger family?Me, by a HUGE margin!

♥ Do you get flowers often?No, not really. But I've gotten some beautiful bouquets in the past.

♥ How do you spend the holidays?Having fun! This year we went to my parents house, and his family was able to be there too, but I think we'll be starting a yearly rotation. So those of you who want to be on the travel list, better sign up quick!

♥ Who is more jealous? I don't think either one of us usually are, but I think he gets btiten by the green bug more often.

♥ How long did it take to get serious?Not too long. We dated for over a year before we got engaged though.

♥ Who eats more? Scott, by far. My sister used to always ask how I grew so tall when I never ate anything. I agree with Will about Lala, she could eat her way out of anywhere! :):) Love ya sis!

♥ Who does/ did the laundry?Neither one of us like it, so we each do it, infrequently. He goes by the sock rule.

♥ Who’s better with the computer? Totally him!

♥ Who drives when you are together?He usually does, unless the road is windy and twisty and then I get to drive. We switch off on long caravans.

And here's to our pup who turned 1 today!

His first trip to Chester, CA about a year ago! Look how tiny he is in the window!

And here he is in Chester, CA a couple weeks ago.

Look at how big his head is!!

He was also eating french fries. Spoiled kid.

Happy Heart Day to Everyone!

An Ode to Randomness

What's Going on in Chico: I'm trying to get wedding invitations out in a timely and efficient manner, settle myself into the school schedule and work on my Master's Analytic Review.

The Weather: Unseasonably warm for Northern California. This winter and last winter did not provide us with the much needed rainfall that we require to sustain our rich farming and aricultural communities. We're still holding out hope for rainy and inclement weather, although the balmy psuedo-summer days are quite nice. My apologies to those of you in the Midwest currently suffering bitterly cold days and nights!

Apollo: Our wonderful dog. He has finally stopped growing up, but is now growing out. He's filling out a lot and since we're coming up on his first birthday, we've begun to phase him out of puppy chow, even though we've resigned ourselves to the fact that he will most likely remain a puppy for another year or so. He's also starting to understand phrases like "Car ride" and "Get the Mail" at which point upon hearing such a phrase he runs to the front door and sits right in front of it, with his chest pressed to the door and his nose to the doorknob in his eagerness to get out and GO! Muddy paws have become the bane of my existence.

Random Updates About Me:

- I started a new workout this month, it's Jillian Michaels' (from the Biggest Loser) 30 Day Shred. There are 3, challenging 20 minute workouts, that have really kicked my butt into high gear to get into shape. I'm also trying to eat less calories, and Lucerne Fat Free Yogurt in Lemon Chiffon is my new favorite food.

- I've joined a book club with some other friends and we are in the process of readin East of Eden by John Steinbeck. I was slightly hesitant at first since my last foray into Steinbeck was the Grapes of Wrath which I did not enjoy at all. So far, I am intrigued by East of Eden and I am managing to fit it into my rotation of 3-4 books at a time. I am currently enamored with a trilogy about Josephine Bonaparte which I highly reccomend for anyone who is into history at all and especially if you're interested in the French Revolution.

- I've finished my first week of my last semester at school, and I don't think I'll have a problem with the course work, I'm just concerned about my Master's Project. I'm doing a comparative analysis of animal attachment and relational attachment and how each mediates the effects of aging and stress in elderly and late adulthood populations. Very ambitious I know, but I have confidence that I'll complete it and hopefully the results will be surprising!

- I am getting excited planning my wardrobe for the cruise. We are going on a Carnival Cruise for our Honeymoon and I'm looking forward to all the fun sun dresses and eveningwear I'll get to pack. Not to mention the shoes! I think I'm most excited to visit Belize! I think it will be completely amazing, as will the other islands and the ship itself. We're also spending 2 days at Disneyworld, and I think this will be very fun and exciting as well. Hopefully there won't be too many toursits (wishful thinking I know), but here's hoping! We're staying at Disney's Contemporary Resort and I think that experience will be just fabulous as well.


Random Updates About Us:

- We are going to a food tasting at our venue, The Bidwell House in a couple of weeks and we're excited about finally being able to taste some of the entrees that we picked out! Hopefully we won't have to make too many changes to the menu!

- We're having our first ever Superbowl Party in the new house, and Scott is definitely looking forward to watching the big game on his TV and celebrating the event with friends. Scott is especially excited to use the deep fryer (thanks Sandi!)!!

- We (I) still haven't found a home in the kitchen for all the new goodies we got for Christmas and the Shower.

- Despite our best efforts, our DVD collection still continues to grow. I have adopted the position that they just keep appearing. I have no idea where they keep coming from. :)

Random News About Chico:

-There was a riot downtown on Thursday. Go Wildcats!

-Apparently Chester hosts Dog Sled Races. This I did not know.

For more interesting info about Chico, you can check out the ChicoER Website. I can't make any guarantees about the quality of news, but it is at least interesting!

Hopefully everyone enjoyed my ode to randomness!

Je t'aime...

As January becomes more than half old, I am forced to think of everythin but school and wedding details that have occupied my mind for the last two weeks. Now that Christmas and New Year's are over and my life has returned to some semblance of order, I find myself drawn to blog about the things I love about life. Some may be artistic and poignant, and others may be complete nonsense. Either way, they keep me from going insane.

1-- Art. What is not to love about art? I think you have to have an appreciation for the rich history that art represents as well as the mutlitude of emotions that it can elicit.

Monet's "Water Lilies". Is there a more classic piece of art than Monet's collection of impressionist paintings from Giverny? The use of light and color make paintings like this come to life. You can almost see the lilies moving on the water.

"Christina's World" by Wyeth. Is she looking towards or away from something? How accurately has he captured the pure starkness of the midwest and farmland. But also the underlying richness of the earth and the soil and the heritage from that part of the US.

I love that you can look at a painting at different times in your life and have it mean completely different things.

2-- Poetry. How amazing a gift when people can use words to mold and shape the feelings of others. Many of you may not know this, but I have a passion for poetry. I've even been known to pen a few poems in my day. My favorites would definitely have to be Sylvia Plath, Emily Dickinson and John Donne. But for your reading pleasure, here's a unique "Stofa" creation. Bear in mind that this is the first time I've posted any of my poems for popular reading.

Communication with a kiss,
digression of the human soul.
Feelings torture the pure heart inside.
Pressure of lips touching mine
enticing mixture of saliva
ignites the heat within my breast.
Feel it rage against
the rising tide of my distress.

Reason wars with passion.
Reason armed with sharp edged words
and cunningly disguised manipulating thoughts,
those vines that twist and change the landscape of my heart.
Passion equipped with fire
burns the path that the brain knows to reason.
Two halves of the same whole;
just two lives. Linked at the mouth,
joined by lust.
Transacting bodies, hearts, and minds
bought and sold with love.
Ghostlike forgotten emotions inhabit the mind’s lost reason,
haunting of the heart.

The world traffics in human emotions,
Barters for the feelings of desire and respect;
murky lines between the two
leave me bereft.
The empty shell of my heart
remains.
I can hear you echo off the hollow walls.

Communication with a kiss
jaded thoughts define the human condition.
Cursed with the thought of love
caught in our transactions.

3-- Laughter. Laughter is such a magical thing. I love to laugh! At life, at myself, more often at myself, but always to find some laughter, I think adds light to the bleakness we often find in this world.

When you have beautiful people in your life, I think it makes the whole bit easier.

4-- Family. My family is growing! I love the thought that in less than 6 months I will be welcomed into another family, will be welcoming others into my family, but will also be starting my own family. Families are crazy, insane collections of individuals that you have no ability to chose from, but that you learn to love, laugh, and live with. I love that families grow and continue to renew themselves, that they are not static but dynamic, and that they are always changing.

2008 in Review

As the New Year dawns, we have many things to look forward to in our neck of the woods. However, I thought I would take the time to remember some of the more memorable things that have happened in 2008 since it was a pretty big year for us.

Starting at the beginning of 2008....


January- I started my 2nd semester of the graduate program and was already looking forward to the summer. Scott put an offer in on our first home.

Feburary- We bought a house! We received the keys to our new home on February 21st and Scott and his Dad, Ralph, moved us in lickety-split.

March- We were just beginning to settle ourselves into our new home. We celebrated March by having a housewarming party, and my best friend from so-cal, Jessica, came up to visit and spent the week with us!

April- What didn't happen in April? We got engaged and we got our Pup Apollo. Both events couldn't have been more exciting for either of us!!

May- I finished my first year in the graduate program!

June- We took a trip to Antelope Lake and to the Redwoods. It was Apollo's first venture into the wild outdoors, and both camping trips were full of fun and friends!

July- Scott's sister Sandi, came up to Chico and spent the 4th of July with us. We had a great time at Buck's Lake, CA playing on the water and relaxing in the sun. My sister Michele and my nephew Johnathan were also able to make it down for the holiday as well as my younger sister Marina! I know, my family is confusing!

August- Time to get ready for school start again! I entered my 2nd year of the graduate program, moving me closer and closer to graduation. Petra, my niece also arrived and I got to visit my sister Larissa and her family in Missouri!

September- I don't remember too much about Sepetember, but there were a lot of birthdays! Justin was born on the 15th, my brother in law Will turned the big 3-0, and my nephew Kace turned 3!

October- October brought midterms and Halloween. This year I dressed up as Elvis, and let me just say that it was the first and last time I'll ever wear a jumpsuit.

November- Sandi and her new beau Cristo came up to Chico and spent the Thanksgiving holiday with us. We had a blast cooking, and celebrating this time of year with them! Apollo loved the turkey too. He sniffed at the oven a lot.

December- The holiday season was in full swing, and both of our families converged on my parent's home in Southern California to celebrate this precious time of year. I also celebrated my 24th birthday at Disneyland.

All in all it was a great year, and we're both lookin forward to the fun and frivolities of 2009!

Happy New Year Everyone!

It's OVER!!!

As of Thursday, December 18th at 1:00pm I was officially done with my second to last semester of work in the Graduate Program. I wrapped up finals, with fingers crossed hoping for the best of the best in grades, and I am finally free.

I say "free" loosely because there is this HUGE Master's Project I need to keep working on, but for this moment I'm enjyoing the sense of bliss and enjoyment that feeling free brings.

So HOORAY for me, in finishing the semester and coming even closer to the completion of my Master's Degree.

A Thankful Heart

Thanksgiving is tomorrow. While I sit at our dining room table, and think about what will need to be done tomorrow to prepare for this annual day devoted to giving thanks, I thought about the multitude of things that I have to be thankful for.

For most anyone, this is not a new concept, and generally Thanksgiving brings on thoughts of sentimental awareness of all the things in our lives we take for granted the other 364 days of the year. I started thinking about what it may take to have a thankful heart and a thankful spirit every day of the year. Often, I think it is easier to reach for anger, blame, frustration, annoyance, irritation, or ego-boosting, rather than be humble and have humility for the many things we have in our lives. I confess, that I am often the person that reaches for anger, or frustration, rather than taking the time to calm myself and feel something more genuine or Spirit-like in those moments. This year, with all the things that are going on in the world, and in my little corner of the universe I was one again struck by my fallible nature, and how I would rather give myself grace than someone else. How terrible is it, that as humans our first instinct is to provide for ourselves first and tout our own hardships and the things we have been able to overcome, but criticize and judge someone else's struggle and wonder why they aren't doing it faster or better?

I think my goal for this year, and the years to come, will be to start offering grace more freely, and giving thanks every day for all the things that I have, and that I may have. I realize what a challenge lies ahead of me, but how rich will my reward be, when I can say I've tried, and succeeded in showing others love, grace, compassion, caring, gentleness, and that I've been able to humble myself and offer thanks for the blessings I have received.

This year, I am thankful for many things. My family, for one. We have been richly blessed this year, with two special new faces and spirits, but also for the family I am building now, in this moment. The foundation blocks that we are laying together will be the support that our family will rest the burdens of it's furture generations on. I am thankful for my family's enduring spirit of kindness and support, and their sense of humor.

I am thankful for my dog, Apollo, even as he lays on the carpet and grunts in his sleep, I am thankful for his devoted spirit and his love of life and the simple way he inspires me to care more deeply for something other than myself.

I am thankful for the homes that I have. The shelter that they provide for my spirit and my heart, and the encouragement and welcome I feel whenever I walk through the door. I am thankful for the memories I have of my homes, in Chico, and in Rancho Cucamonga, because it is the memories that we cherish and nurture. It's also where many funny things have happened that have provided many fun stories to share! :)

I am thankful for Scott. He is so many things, things he's not even aware that he does, but he is everything for me. I am thankful that I have someone, at least on this earth, who is willing to be my everything.

And lastly, I am thankful for TURKEY! How can you have a thankful heart, without sharing it over some delicious turkey this year!! I will miss my sister Larissa fighting her son Kace for the turkey leg, but I think it will be wonderful holiday and I'm thankful for the blessings of the food that we will have this year, and how it always feels like the holidays when turkey is cooking.

HAPPY THANKSGIVING EVERYONE!!!

Another reason why I love Chico

(Chico State Campus, View of Kendall Hall & Time Capsule Square)

There were several reasons why I decided to attend Chico State way back when I was deciding what to do with my life as an 18 year old high school graduate. I had scouted schools in Texas and Northern California, ultimately I was accepted to two Northern California schools, St. Mary's in Moraga, and Chico State. Here I faced a tough decision, because I was in LOVE with St. Mary's campus and school programs and proximity to San Francisco, but the 30K a year really put a damper on my plans for the future. Thus, I found myself attending Chico State in the Fall after graduation, with grand plans to complete my Bachelor's in Psychology in 4 years.

(Bidwell Park)

Growing up in Southern California for the better part of my life, I had somewhat forgotten what the change of seasons can be like and how spectacular the experience can be. In Alaska, all four seasons are wonderful, with so many colors and life just exploring in the Spring and Summer, but the winter provides some of the most spectacular views of nature and wildlife. When we moved to Southern California, I was treated to a different change of seasons. As we like to say, "Southern California has 4 seasons, 2 summers and 2 winters." Meaning that sometimes summer stretches into October, but sometimes around Christmas it can be as warm as 80 degrees. The leaves decide one day to fall off the trees and the Santa Ana's usually signal the change of seasons in the fall and in the spring. Suffice to say, I was looking forward to my first Northern California autumn, and boy was I in for a treat.

(Bidwell Park)

Chico is a beautiful city. It is full of history, art and culture and is surrounded by some of the most beautiful wilderness and nature areas that I have ever seen. Bidwell park is absolutely gorgeous and full of interesting plants and trees. Chico State campus is absolutely gorgeous in the fall and the spring, when the leaves literally rain down from the trees creating the most unique of autumnal showers. The winters are rainy and cold, but once again in the spring we are treated to such an explosion of life that it renews the spirit and the heart seeing so many things blossom and grow.

I pulled all these photos off of the internet and it illustrates perfectly how absolutely gorgeous Chico is this time of year. It's one of the rare times of the year I don't miss the beach or Disneyland quite as much as I do when it's 115 degrees outside with 80% humidity. Although Scott and Larissa would say, "You think this is humid? Try living in the Midwest!"

Enjoy the photos and my own slice of autumnal heaven!

The Mystery Has Been Solved

The German Shorthair... Apollo...

You be the judge...

Apollo. Our dearly loved little pup, has been a mystery to us ever since we picked him up from the shelter.

He's about 9 months old now, and he's changed a lot since he's been growing up. We first believed that he was a Black Lab, with a possible mix. The vet then told us that he looked more Great Dane than Black Lab, which was no less reassuring.

Speculation then grew as a number of people began to identify Apollo as an English Pointer. This was slightly more relieving as we were not necessarily looking forward to having a big Great Dane mix lumbering around the house. Thus, we arrived at the conclusion that Apollo must be a Black Lab-English Pointer mix.

However, the plot thickened. While I was at the mall with some girlfriends, we passed the yearly holiday Christmas display and were soon "ooh-ing" and "ahh-ing" over all the cute puppy pictures of Pugs, Bull Dogs, Dachunds and other adorbale little guys. My eye then caught a calendar with a dog that looked surprisingly like Apollo. The breed? German Shorthaired Pointers!

I feel confident, after doing some online research, that we've stumbled across the breed that Apollo belongs to and we no longer have to worry about him exceeding some ginormous size dimesions! He's still adorable and lovable and keeps us entertained.

Living with Neighbors

As many of you know, Scott bought a house earlier this spring. We were very excited to be starting this next phase of our lives together, and it was a pretty momentous decision for us, but mostly for Scott. He was the one forking over all the cash and all that after all. We simply fell in love with the house and were very excited when we adopted our puppy Apollo in April on the heels of our engagement.

The neighborhood was one of the main reasons we fell in love with the house. Our home is in a quiet suburb of Chico, close to shopping, schools and my work. The streets are quiet and there are a lot of young families in the neighborhood and we were excited to be "moving up" in the world. It didn't take long for us to realize that some of the parents weren't as aware of their children, since they play in the street while cars drive by, but hey they aren't my kids. We also began to realize that our next door neighbor wasn't particularly fond of having neighbors herself. As young puppy parents, we were pretty diligent about when we would leave Apollo alone, especially at night. However, one evening, both Scott and I were out, we came home to find a lovely note from our neighbor, succinctly warning us that we'd better learn to take better care of our dog, since she doesn't want to have to go into our yard again to quiet him down. That was a bit of a rude awakening for both Scott and I, but we determined to take the high road, and be the better people, by apologizing to our friendly neighbor, but also installing some locks on our side gate. Needless to say, Scott and I smoothed over relations with this neighbor and so far things have been quite cordial from then on.

Recently, we had another neighbor move into the house next door that they've been trying to lease for sometime. We were pleased that the house was finally filled up, but recently we've had a lot of aggravation. They also have a small dog, we think he's relatively young, possibly the same age as Apollo, but he gets left outside all day long from 6 am to 6 pm in the rain, in the heat, and he cries and barks all day long. Apollo has been pretty upset about all of this and has increasingly been tearing up parts of the yard, because I think sometimes he feels bad for this poor puppy, but also because he doesn't like being barked at all day long. Needless to say, we're all a little taxed by having to deal with yet another set of mischeivious neighbors, but I don't like that they are semi-abusing their dog!!

We're still going to try and be friendly. Even though we wonder about the presence of adults and people that are actually responsible. We have vowed not to vandalize their home, no matter how tempting it may be and even though copious amounts of teepee are readily available.

Butterflies

Well, as some of you may be aware, the wedding date is slowly creeping towards us.

There are only 230 days left until the BIG day and as I look ahead on my calendar at all the things I've yet to do and get done, I find myself starting to get a little more than nervous. Some of you might think that's crazy, since it is 230 days away, and how could I possibly be nervous with the date so far away.

What I would say to those people is, "I have every right to be nervous! I'm getting married!" That's only like one of the biggest commitments you will ever share with another human being! In 230 days I will join my life with someone else's and no longer be just one, but always a part of two. Even though I look forward to that day with all the anticipation and excitement, I think it's normal to be nervous because that commitment is a serious one, and definitely is not something to be taken lightly.

We'll be starting pre-marital counseling soon, and I think having everything start falling into place is making me more and more nervous about the moment I will walk down the aisle as a bride and say "I do" to the most important man in my life.

Because I haven't blogged in awhile....

....and because I don't really want to study for the midterm I have tomorrow, I thought I'd write a blog.

Recently you guys have been able to see the many feats of our dog Apollo. We're always intrigued by what he's willing to do for a treat, and we're glad to share them with everyone.

I've been pretty busy myself these days between work, school, wedding planning, more school, trying to sleep and eat on a regular basis and still nurture myself and my relationship it's been a hectic few months.

While Scott and I were lucky to get most of the wedding details squared away before I went back to school, I find that the deadlines I had so carefully set back in July and August are slowly creeping up on me. Right now I'm in the middle of midterms, papers and projects and up to my eyeballs in the group process, I'm finding it a little hard to keep up with and find time for all those little details. Oh, and there's this gigantic Master's Project I'm supposed to be working on too. Yeah, totally need to get on the ball for that one.

I am however, blessed to have the amazing support of my family, especially my mom, and my best friend Jessica who are oh-so-wonderfully planning my bridal shower in Southern California. I am also amazed at the constant patience and support that Scott shows me in so many different ways as he also "suffers" through the trails of graduate school with me. Just this evening as I was working on my 3rd and hopefully final genogram, he looked over at me and said "You're doing another one? You've done like 3 since we've been together! I'm glad I'm not in school anymore." Yet he still puts up with me and all my conjecturing about Family Systems Theory, Families of Origin, and all those other theoretical, therapeutic and psychological things I'm learning and immersing myself in.

It's interesting to be involved in a program that encourages self-exploration, family history and research and patterns of behavior among many many many more things. But it is interesting to be given the opportunity to really take 2 years out of your life and study yourself. I think of the multitude of things I've learned and have yet to learn, the people I've had the opportunity to influence and who have also influenced me, and I can only think that I am truly blessed to be on the path that I'm on.

Just today in one of my classes we were talking about Tao Fa or Chinese watercourse way. It's a Cross-Cultural Counseling Class (what an alliteration!), and it talks about rivers being on a journey to the ocean, and that they change everything they touch. That in the course of the river flowing, everything it touches is changed and altered. As I pondered this concept, metaphor really, I thought of myself as the Earth and all the people in my life that are rivers. There is my mother, who is the strongest, deepest and widest river crossing my landscape. A silent, everpresent force that's been guiding me and shaping me. There's Joe, my dad, who's a little less deep, but just as constant, but with a few more rapids and turns. And then there's Scott, who enters about halfway down the landscape, and has carved the deepest pools, has travelled the most curves and is full of the waterfalls that fill my heart. Before I go on and on about different people in my life, I just don't have the room to list them all, I just want to add that water is such a significant metaphor for anyone really. Sometimes we have rain in our lives, storms that seem like they never will pass. Sometimes we have lazy turning rivers and streams that allows us to meander at our own pace, but we also have the water that fills us with Life, that causes our cup to runneth over and fill our hearts with joy.

I just thought that those were some beautiful thoughts and images that I had on this fine Monday evening, and wished to impart them all to you! Maybe I'll start a regular Monday blog with my thoughts from my cultural musings from class.

Apollo's new trick

Dogs are so much fun. :)

Exhaustion

As I sit at work trying to stay awake, I thought I'd give a quick recap of the weekend events that made me so tired.

Friday - After a full day of work, some last minute scrambling and preparation we (Jenn, Jeremy, Kim and I) took off for Sleep Train Amphitheater in Marysville to see Cheap Trick, Heart and Journey. We arrived at around 7:30 and heard the last few songs of Cheap Trick's set as we were driving in and walking towards the venue. After cruising through what can only be described as the most pathetic bag check ever we made our way to the general admission lawn seats. Kim and I have both been to concerts here before, but we both agreed that this was the largest crowd we had ever seen. Normally you can bring a blanket and spread out a bit. Not this time, it was standing room only and we were packed in tight.

As for the show, Heart put on a great set with most of their classics and a killer rendition of The Who's Reign O'er Me. Ann Wilson can still belt out the vocals. Then it was time for Journey. They played a good mix of new and old stuff, although they definitely got a better response from the crowd with their older songs. Their new Korean lead singer impressed us all. I have some video of "Don't Stop Believin" that I may try and post later.

We had a great time despite the large crowd and the inevitable annoying people who end up right next to you.

Saturday - So after getting home from the concert at around 12:30 - 1:00 in the morning it was straight to bed so that I could get up at 7:30 to prepare for my triathlon. More of a mini triathlon, but you can still be impressed. Every year Becky (a college friend of mine who lives in nearby Los Molinos) hosts a "triathlon" on her birthday. Its a family and friends event, nothing too official but fun nonetheless. Every year for the past 5 years I have been invited, and every year I have managed to find an excuse to not go. This year however I felt up to the challenge.

Becky's family has some orchards near the Sacramento River. So our mini triathlon consisted of approximately 1/2 mile run from her parents house to the river, followed by a short 100 yard or so swim, another 1/2 mile run from the river back to the house where we left our bikes, and finally a 12 mile bike ride. Of the 4 legs the hardest part was most definitely the 1/2 mile run after the swim. I'm not in the best shape of my life, but I'm in good enough condition to handle a few mile jog, swimming however really took it out of me. I realized I am NOT in swimming shape. Once I made it to the bikes though I was able to enjoy the bike ride through the orchards. It was a beautiful day thankfully. As for the results I finished in 6th place out of about 15 people with a time of 1 hour, 25 minutes and 44 seconds. I'm confident that with smaller rests between stations and a better bike I could shave at least 10 minutes off that time. That will be the goal for next year. Anyway once everyone finished it was BBQ time. All in all it was a great time.

However, needless to say by Saturday afternoon I was physically exhausted and quite sore (again I think I need a new bike). I spent the rest of the day cleaning up around the house and relaxing. After picking Jenn and her friends up from their girls night out at around 1:00 in the morning it was time for some much needed sleep.

Sunday - Ah yes the always exhausting football day. Ok, yesterday was neither tiring nor demanding. It was just what I needed. A full day of couch time watching football games at Nick's apartment. I'd like to use this chance to say GO BUFFALO BILLS! 4-0! Its been a long time (over a decade) since Buffalo has been a team of relevance. With a soft schedule and the Tom Brady-less Patriots, this could be the year that Buffalo takes their division.

Anyway, back to work today and softball game tonight. No rest for the weary!

Why My Girls are "de bomb!"

It has recently occurred to me that I am very lucky to have the girlfriends that I do.

Let me start with a little backstory.

My choice to attend Chico State happened at a pretty tumultuous time in my life. I really needed a change of pace, a change of friends and a change of scenery. While I still maintained close friendships with a few of my pals from Southern California. I began to forge some new friendships while at Chico. I went through the "normal" ups and downs of roommate drama, friend drama and other drama, and ended up making more friends at work than I did while at school.

But all was not lost for little ol' Jenn. When I entered the Master's Program at Chico State I was not expecting to make the types of frienships and bonds with 4 girls that I happened to meet at Chico State.

So this is a shout out to my gal-pals Katie, Meghan, Andrie and Shalea, who are the best and most special girlfriends I could ask for!

From Left to Right. Andrie, Katie, Meghan and Me!

**Shalea not pictured.